Noah came downstairs when he heard his name. “I’m Aaron,” he said. “I know.” He glanced toward our garage. “Is Noah home?” Noah came downstairs when he heard his name. Aaron swallowed. Noah didn’t say anything at first. “My dad passed last night.” Noah didn’t say anything at first. Then he asked, “Was he alone?” “No. Claire and I were there.” Noah nodded once. I realized Mr. Vance had known more people than I thought. “Okay.” Aaron looked almost confused by his reaction. Then Noah said, “When’s the funeral?” We went three days later. The church was crowded enough that I realized Mr. Vance had known more people than I thought. Aaron and his sister, Claire, sat in front. When the service ended, everyone stood. Both of them cried through most of the service. Noah insisted on sitting in the last row. “This is family stuff,” he whispered. “You mattered to him too.” “Not like they did.” When the service ended, everyone stood. The man held out a thick envelope. Aaron was hugging someone near the front when a man in a gray suit walked down the aisle toward us. He stopped directly in front of Noah. “Are you Noah?” Noah glanced at me. “Yeah.” People nearby began turning to look. The man held out a thick envelope. “I’m Daniel. I handled Mr. Aaron’s estate.” Noah stared at it. “What is this?” “Something he left for you.” People nearby began turning to look. Inside were four smaller envelopes. Aaron noticed and walked over with Claire. Daniel handed Noah the envelope. “He left very specific instructions.” Noah opened it. Inside were four smaller envelopes. “I’ve never seen those.” Each one had handwriting across the front. Saturday One. Saturday Two. Saturday Three. Saturday Four. “Your instructions are to open one each Saturday. In order.” Claire blinked. “I’ve never seen those.” Neither had Aaron. Noah looked at the lawyer. “What’s in them?” “I don’t know. Your instructions are to open one each Saturday. In order.” Aaron studied the envelopes for another second before he almost smiled. Noah gave a short laugh. At a funeral. I nudged him. “Sorry,” he said. “It’s just… that’s him.” Aaron studied the envelopes for another second before he almost smiled. Aaron and Claire had both come over. “Yeah. It is.” The following Saturday, Noah opened the first envelope at our kitchen table. Aaron and Claire had both come over. Inside was an address and one sentence. “Take Claire with you.” Claire stared at the address. Then her mouth opened slightly. Claire hadn’t been there in years. “I know this place.” It was a diner about twenty minutes away. Claire hadn’t been there in years. When we arrived, an older woman behind the counter looked at Claire and froze. “Oh, my goodness.” Claire frowned. Claire started crying before she even knew why we were there. “Ruth?” Ruth came around the counter and hugged her. “I haven’t seen you since your mother died.” Claire started crying before she even knew why we were there. Ruth disappeared into the back and returned with a cardboard box. “Your father brought this to me six months ago.” Margaret’s handwriting covered every card. Inside were recipe cards. Dozens of them. Margaret’s handwriting covered every card. Claire picked one up and made a sound like the air had been knocked out of her. “Cinnamon rolls.” Ruth smiled sadly. Claire pressed the card to her chest. “Your mother’s Christmas recipe.” Claire pressed the card to her chest.

When my mother would start teasing my father—and of course, in front of the children, it didn’t matter to her—he, strangely enough, remained stoic and never, even though she treated him to terrible things, would just stand there and watch her while she inflicted pain on him, and he swallowed it. He accepted it.”The actor recalled that his father never once lost his temper, attacked his mother, or even spoke harshly to her. Several times, the situation escalated to the point where his father had tears in his eyes as he watched her silently. The worst thing his father did was punch a wall with his fist—once so hard that his hand shattered on the hard concrete—but he never touched her or argued with her. Despite this, according to the star, he remained a gentleman.

“As a five-year-old, I kept wondering: why does he put up with this? How does he put up with this? And why doesn’t he leave her? But he didn’t. He was able to stay calm and composed. He was able to maintain relationships with children. He’s a good man.”

He started taking pills at age 11.
Eventually, his father left the family, telling his son he couldn’t live like that anymore.

His parents separated when he was 15. Although he initially considered his father’s departure “cowardly,” he later realized his father had simply made a decision he believed was best for himself.After the divorce, his mother’s condition continued to deteriorate.

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